Kyle had been wanting a tattoo for a while, but he didn't just want a tattoo to get a tattoo--he had something very specific in mind. He really wanted to get our wedding date tattooed on his ring finger. I can't remember when he started talking about it, but I know he had been wanting to do it for a while-- at least a year.
I honestly was opposed at first. I personally am still undecided on how I feel about tattoos on my husband (not to mention could never personally get one due to my phobia of needles!), but please don't mistake that for judgment of anyone who has one! I think everyone has a right to express themselves in whatever way they choose as long as it's not harming anyone else!
Still, I wasn't sure how I felt about Kyle getting one. I mean, those things are forever! But, he kept talking about it, and I could tell that he had really thought it through and that it would mean a lot to him to have my support.
And when he mentioned doing it on our drive back home after Christmas, I was surprisingly OK with it. And by OK, I mean I gave my blessing and told him I'd be excited to see it when he got home! As much as I would've liked to have gone with, I'm pretty sure we didn't need to distract the artist with me passing out.
So, he went.
Kyle ended up not being able to get our wedding date because apparently its hard for the ink to settle with small numbers (especially on the hand), and it might have faded away.
Onto Plan B...was there a plan B? I don't know! We certainly didn't discuss a plan B.
Luckily, Plan B ended up being better than Plan A in my book.
What was Plan B?
Infinity Symbol |
But, I most definitely think that I can't argue with the meaning behind it!
That is so sweet! I have a white ink infinity symbol on the side of my wrist and I've been wishing I'd just gotten it in black.
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Aw, Laura! This is the sweetest thing ever, especially since it was HIS idea! You've definitely got a keeper!
ReplyDeleteI like it! My husband also mentions getting a small tattoo every so often too, and I'm never sure how I feel about it either. It's just not something I care to do. He always says that he'll probably do it once we have a child...something that represents him/her. Way to be a supportive wife! Also, I'm your newest follower :)
ReplyDeleteWelcome to the Clan McLeod ink club Kyle =)
ReplyDeletelove it. I keep saying I'm going to get a "J" for Josh (my husband) on my ring finger but haven't taken the plunge yet!
ReplyDeleteI think that was a great choice for a tattoo!!! And still have meaning for the two of you :)
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